My heart is hurting for L. The H side of her family has done it again. Months and Months ago her Uncle Chris had told her he would get her a ticket to fly out to NC this summer so she could visit with them again – he brought her out last year for Alyssa’s wedding. He even brought it up again to her when she took her brief detour to MN asking if that move meant she wouldn’t be coming out to see them this summer. So she spoke with him a few months back and they decided that she should come out over Father’s Day weekend because that was when her Dad was going to be there on his vacation. L was very excited – if it wasn’t for her Uncle Chris she would never get to see her Dad.
A couple months went by and she didn’t hear anything – she left messages for Chris with no call back. She spoke with her Dad and he said he would call Chris and find out what was going on. They told her that Chris was looking for flight times and process and they would let her know what they found and when she would be flying out. That was the last she heard from them.
She is having a very hard/sad day today because this is when she should have been there. She knows that her Dad is there with his other family and she’s not being included. She is just really upset and doesn’t understand why they ignore her calls and didn’t just tell her what was going on. She feels like they didn’t want her there and that she’s not a part of the family.
I don’t understand how someone can do that either. How do you treat your child like that? What goes through your head when you make the decision to not include her in the family vacation? Why would you even tell her that you were working on getting the ticket for her to come if you had no intention of following through on it?
My suspicion about what is going on here is this – as y’all know L’s step-mother Randi does not like her at all – come on woman, it’s been over 18 years aren’t you tired from carrying this grudge around with you. Anyways – I think she didn’t want L there for her family’s vacation so she called her sister Gerri – who is L’s Aunt Gerri – and got all upset and acted like a spoiled brat and told Gerri how L was going to ruin their family time and how she doesn’t like her and doesn’t want her there - got Gerri to convince Chris not to get L a ticket. Chris – being a nice guy just didn’t know how to tell L that he had to back out of what he had promised her so that would be why he’s not returning her calls.
What do I have to say about this if my suspicions are correct! How Dare You Treat L Like This. She’s A Part of Your Family!! Grow Up People!!!!!
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